
18th February 2026 is for some parts of the Christian Faith the commencement of Lent; a solemn observance prior to Easter. Dates and practices vary
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lent
By happy synchronicity of calendars this year, the Islamic Ramadan commenced of the 17th February 2026
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ramadan
Both as solemn times of fasting, penitence, religious observation and spiritual reflection. And in consequence seem a good time to write a reflective post across a broad spectrum.
On Human Flaws
There are many some are small niggly little things with a potential to get out of control on the local level- loud music being a classic. Some with a capacity to spread wreckage far and wide. This post is about one which is sometimes a starter all of its own, while other times is brought into the mix.
Conflict 
As we know it can start anywhere, anyhow, anybody. Its causes are myriad, mostly political, misuse of religion, race, greed and social differences. At the lower end it is conducted these days on Social Media, or on The Streets, at the other end on The Battlefield. Sometimes those who claim to be leaders or want to be are the cause, and going back to the other extreme it will be what’s called a grass roots movement of division or discontent that some opportunists will be only to willing to bring their carpet bag or medicine show wagon to.
Thanks to the proliferation of Social Media it often needs only a label or a slogan to get the whole thing rolling and roiling. And constructive thought or true critical thinking does not come into the process – heck those two are quite the encumbrance to Conflict on account of asking that difficult question:
WHY
Now by that I don’t mean ‘Why’ two groups or people are yelling, shouting, threatening, hitting, missile-ing at each other. We know that, the parties strongly don’t get on, feel threatened, fear what the other side represent. That’s the Old Story. I mean the other tricky deeper question WHY ‘the parties strongly don’t get on, feel threatened, fear what the other side represent’ . How did it get to this stage? Never mind what the leaders, pundits, loudmouths, fast buck merchants and Social Media, YouTube, Instagram, X Tik-Tok and whatever other platform stirrers, influencers, I Want More Than Five Minutes of Fame peddlers are pushing. I mean how did YOU, THEY ,US, THEM get here- now? Because to be honest no one in a bright shiny uniform along with a few others in not so bright and shiny equivalents came up to your door said ‘You’re drafted.’ hauled you off, uniformed you up, gave you a weapon and pointed you in the direction of the foe with an instruction to do harm. No YOU,THEY, US,THEM we all signed up as fast as we could. And we could not wait to get at the foe.
At this stage you should be somewhat aggrieved with me and pointing out that there was a Good Cause for YOU, WE to feel this way and it’s because THEY ,THEM are the way THEY are, it’s all their fault.
All their fault?
The supposition amongst the anger and rage is that one side has at least a majority holding in the Ethical and even Practical stakes, while the others are just shorn of all senses and perceptions.
Harsh?
Well since both sides are calling out those shots there is a suggestion the situation is jagged.
Let’s go down to the micro-level to the folk who pay the dues
Those Who Care (About Something)
Everyone has opinions and also have strong beliefs about something or other. Which means at some stage they are going to bump up against those who have the opposite strong beliefs. Now there is a very high likelihood that for a whole slew of reasons neither are ever going to agree.
The question to be asking is – Do WE,YOU,THEY,THEM strongly disagree with everything the people of the other side hold to? Here’s a hardcore example.
Two groups are having a loud ruckus in the street. Suddenly a distressed person is crying for help, distracted with one baby their two other children being kids have got into a boat onto a patch of water, hit something and the boat starting to sink. Do the two groups carry on? Do either of them check out if the parent is on their side of the argument. Or do the whole lot as one group go rushing off to help, form a human chain, or a swim line or anything to help, while others contact the rescue services. I am suggesting here the whole argument gets forgotten and maybe a few tenuous working relationships are formed, because amongst the groups bother will be agreeing that something should have been done about careless leaving of boats at the rickety jetty and those dangerous bits underwater. You could parallel that with any number of scenarios.(By the way you get social points deducted for trying to blame the parent – they were dealing with the baby and any parent knows if there is something dangerous kids if left unsupervised even for a second will be there!
The point I wish to make is that there is usually some common ground somewhere. I will leave you to imagine less extreme examples.
We all disagree strongly but those who disagree strongly with each will also have common ground. And it is there that we should be, on the common ground, working with the other side, realising some things can be worked through together, while accepting that some won’t.
And won’t those snake oil merchants who trade in conflict hate that? They cannot abide moderation or constructive working together. They want YOU,US,THEM,THEY to be forever divided and filling up their coffers (literally) and ensuring they get the top jobs.
At this stage…No…I am not going to break out one of those 1960s ‘Let’s All Love Each Other’ songs. I never gave them much store back then when I was teenager and sadly they did not work out either. The nearest anyone got was Lennon/McCartney’s ‘We Can Work It Out’.
Basically time is running out, and there’s too much Conflict . Work together and at the end of the day go home and maybe say ‘Geez I can work fine with them but if I lived with them I swear…..’
It’s a start.
Together on The Common Ground.
Take care folks.
PS: This might be the start of a sort of series of reflective style posts over this (for me) Lenten season.
Not sure yet. We’ll see.
PS II – I don’t know how this will look to you, but I can’t be responsible for where WP is putting it adverts.
Hopefully they will turn up in reasonably sited places
Roger






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